My wonderful son
Have I mentioned how I adore my son? No? Well, that's not good, because I do. He's my best friend and he has this way of just getting right to the point.
This evening, every picture I have of him fell off the wall in Library II, in a tremendous crash. I believe in omens. I emailed him but heard nothing in ten seconds, so I called him. He is well. He is fine. He is funny. He is bright. And he is mine. He is my wonderful son.
I am so proud of the man he became. And that knack for getting right to the point? Yeah, sweet son. I said, you know you could call and email more often. And he said, yeah, I could. So could you.
Long ago, I was offered a drug that they said might slow my MS. I had to think about it because one of the side effects is a couple days of flu symptoms. I mentioned to my son that I really didn't want to take this drug and ruin my every weekend with it, since I surely would not take the shot on a weekend night and miss work every week. He listened patiently and then he said, let me understand. You'd rather be blind and in a wheelchair than have the flu every weekend?
When he was in first grade he asked me why I didn't wear a seatbelt. I gave him the usual reasons, but I think my biggest one was that they wrinkled my clothes. Anxiously as only a six year old can be, he said, "But Mommy, if you have a car accident and you die, who will love me then?"
I just wanted to take this early morning moment to say that my son is a wonderful human being and I am proud of the man who came from the boy I raised.
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